Some singles just want to taste sex, then stop until marriage. Sex is like a hard drug; the more you have it, the more you want to have it. And like hunger for food, our body asks for it always. There is no amount of food you will eat today that would stop you from being hungry tomorrow. That is how sex is! The adulterer may only have wanted one kiss, but today, s/he cannot remember how many thus far.
Some husbands are like “but I gave her great sex last week nau”. Uncle, old things have passed away. Sex is like love, grace, mercy and forgiveness; it ought to be new “every morning.” Well, that is where self-control and discipline comes into play. That you feel like having sex now does not mean you would die if you don’t have it. Just like food (humans can live without water for about 5 to 7 days and without food for about 2 to 3 weeks), you can fast sex for a while and not die.
Some sexologist agree that a marriage is sexually starved if it has not more than 1 sex in 2 weeks. At the Alright’s Passion, we recommend that every marriage should have sex, at least, once a week.
The hunger for sex is what has made some organizations rank sex as a BASIC HUMAN NEED in addition to food, water, shelter, security etc. This is also the reason why I never judge masturbators. Most times, it feels like they need it to survive. In fact, many people addicted to masturbation and sex do not do it for the pleasure but somehow for “survival”. This is the reason why I always celebrate those who have been sexually active before but are now celibate. It isn’t easy.
So, Dear Single, avoid tasting. You may never be able to stop. Dear married folks, Sex is a Basic Human Need (not Want). Last week’s yellow pounded yam with black soup does not satisfy today’s cravings. And that Amala, Ewedu and Gbiri was her best meal 2 days ago does not mean she cannot prefer boiled water yam with egg sauce today.
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